Call Me Xander

WARNING: MAHABA ANG USAPANG ITO!!! From: The Confused Staff To: zxander316@gmail.com Date: Saturday,  August 25, 2012 Subject: Hello po! Pa advise naman... Hi Kuya, Napadpad ulit ako sa blog mo. Naging busy po kasi ako sa work ko eh. Nakakatuwa pa din basahin mga post mo sa blog. Kakaaliw lalo na yung post mo na Anak Ka ng Lovelife. Natamaan po ako dun Kuya. Hinidi ko alam kung san ba ako lulugar kapag love na ang pinag-uusapan.  Pwede naman siguro mag share sayo Kuya Xander diba? Magaling ka naman kasi magbigay ng payo kapag love na eh.  Kuya, ganito po kasi yan. May lovelife po kasi ako ngayon. Two years na po kami at medyo madami na din po kaming napagdaanan na pagsubok. Kaso parang nakakasawa na po eh. Lagi na lang kaming nag-aaway. Lahat ng bagay na lang po kasi pinagseselosan niya. Kahit yung hindi ko pag hello or pag good morning sa kanya sa text eh nagagalit na agad. Eh siya hindi naman siya ganun sa akin. Palagi na lang po kasi ako...

Isang letter sender ang bibigyan ng kaukulang pansin dito sa Return to Sender. Isang babaeng nais bigyan ng second chance ang lalaking minahal niya ng buong buhay at tapat. Isang pag iibigan na humantong sa hiwalayan dahil sa "third party". Sa tingin nyo dapat pa bang bigyan ng second chance si lalaki? Naniniwala ka bang sa katagang "Love is sweeter the second time around?". Basahin natin ang liham ni Ms. Second Chance Hopeful -----------------------------------------------{-@ From: Second Chance Hopeful To: zxander316@gmail.com Date: August 31, 2011 Subject: Is Love sweeter the Second time Around? Dear Xandero, May matinding tanong po ako sa inyo. Naniniwala po ba kayo sa second chance? Like yung tipong magkakabalikan pa kayo ng ex-lover mo? Ikaw po ba kung may ex ka at nagkaroon ng moment na magkaayos kayo babalikan mo pa?  Weird po ng tanong ko noh? Pero kasi yung ex ko gusto makipagbalikan sa akin. Ehh Im scared na baka mangyari...

A mistress should be like a little country retreat near the town, not to dwell in constantly, but only for a night and away.   -- Lord Byron (British Poet, 1788-1824) Hi Guys! The Guru is back. It's been a while since I havent posted anything like this. You've Got Mail is now called Return To Sender. This is my way of replying to those email senders who wants to hear my point of view and opinion about their queries and concerns. I'm replying (returning) the email to sender with my own views and opinions. Kuha nyo? Anyways, here's an interesting email from someone and for security and privacy reasons, lets just call her the Fierce Mistress (Parang bagong palabas lang na the Fierce Wife ng ABS-CBN Channel 2). ****************************************************** ****************************************************** From: The Fierce Wife To: zxander316@gmail.com Date: July 30, 2011 10:15AM Subject: Confession of a Mistress Hel...

"There comes a time in the spiritual journey when you start making choices from a very different place. And if a choice lines up so that it supports truth, health, happiness, wisdom, and love, it's the right choice." - Angele Arrien (born 1940); Anthropologist Hey guys! Howdy?           Here's another email from a reader and I would like to share it with you. Our email sender is a  Certified Nurse and just got his licensed recently. He is in a dilemma of pursuing a career here in the Philippines or starting a life abroad. You know the drill guys, so here you go... ~~~~~~~ From: Confused Nurse To: zxander316@gmail.com Date: Tuesday, June 28, 2011 Subject: Weee... Hey Sir Xander,           I really admire you the way you write; your technique and style is really good. I'm an instant fan. I did some back readings on your blog and its cute to know that a lot of your readers sent ...

This is another email I got from someone whom I'll call Silent Reader. It's interesting to know that lately I've been receiving emails who are asking questions about anything. This one is something serious. I am scared to share my own opinion about this certain topic that Ms. Silent Reader is sharing as I am not in the authority to give out any advise. I am still learning about life, love and other mysteries. However, since I value and love those who follow this blog and read it wholeheartedly, I'll share whatever I have in mind and will give my best and I hope that Ms. Silent Reader will get something out of this. Medyo may kahabaan po ang post na ito, so pagpasensyahan nyo na po. Anyways, below is the email of Ms. Silent Reader. Again, personal information like email address and name were changed to keep the identity of the one who sent it private.

I got an email from a reader who wants to know and get my opinion about Coincidence . The name of course has been change for privacy. Please read the email below. From: Ms. Coincidence To: zxander316@gmail.com Date: Sunday, June 13, 2011 at 9:04PM Subject: "aboynamedxander concern" Dear Kuya Xander, I really love your blog. Gustong gusto kong basahin yung blog mo kasi madami akong natutunan lalo na yung mga inspirational post mo. Masaya ang blog mo kasi hindi ka lang nag focus sa isang topic kundimaraming bagay pa. Napansin ko lang na lately ang post mo parang broken-hearted ka at medyo may pagka emo. Bakit po? Ok ka lang po ba? Alam mo ba Kuya Xander an yung blog mo nalaman ko lang sa isang friend ko. Sabi nung friend ko yung teacher daw niya sinabi na i visit yung blog mo kasi madami daw matutunan na aral. Tama nga siya. Hope you will keep on posting inspirational stories and stuff.