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I Support: End Hunger, Walk The World

I was browsing my old photo albums in my account in webshots.com when I saw this old picture of me and my officemates taken last 2009. This picture was taken when we participated in the End Hunger, Walk The World campaign by World Food Program. The pictures reminded me that once in my life I participated in a worldwide event that helped a lot of people specially children who doesn't have the opportunity or was deprived of their rights to eat and given sufficient food.

I was watching TV last night when Star Patrol, a segment from TV Patrol News Program of ABS-CBN, featured KC Concepcion just came back from her world trip. She is the National Ambassador for Against Hunger under UN World Food Program. My interest in participating and joining events likes this moved up to the next level. For this year, I do my best to participate more in any events that will help other people. Its' not only this particular campaign but also the ones like helping Save Mother Earth, Takbo Para sa Kalaikasan, Fun Run and some others. Anything that will promote our environment, good health, helping people etc., I will do my best to be on the list. 

WHAT IS WALKED THE WORLD

This is actually an annual event to raise money and awareness of World Food Program's effort to fight child malnutrition and hunger. This is a joint effort and its corporate partners, led by TNT, Unilever and DSM. Employees from this company walk with WFP Ambassadors, staff and beneficiaries as well as government and NGO partners to show solidarity in the fight against hunger and malnutrition. 

The succeeding pictures below shows me and my friends participated in the even last 2009,. We are not the one being feed by this event. We just look hungry but were healthy.  Lol. My previous employer participated in this event so we got the chance to join and unite with the world.
Strike a pose before the event starts
Its End the world for them! haha

Pose again..while walking..

The crowd
To know more about their past activities and upcoming events, you can check this website: http://www.wfp.org

This particular post is my way of showing support and encouragement to everyone who wants to help. I am not connected with WFP in anyway. This is just my way of saying that I support them and I believe in their advocacy in helping children around the globe. After all, "I believe the children are our future".

If I Could Just Live My Life Over


I would have spend more time with my family than spending time with myself and with people I just met.

I would have dance in the rain than just watching it.

I would have talked less and listen more.

I would have spend more time at church than going to bars, malls, restaurants which makes me grow physically than making my soul grow in faith.

I would have given more time to those people close to my heart than gave more time at work.

I would have invited friends to go out with me sometimes than pretending that I can be alone and be happy, alone.

Instead of crying over something that's lost, I would have enjoyed and praised for it not because I'm hurting but because there is something better for me ahead.

There would be more "i love you's"  and "I'm sorry's" than "i hate you's".

Instead of cursing, there would be more praising and rejoicing.
There would be more appreciation of small little things in life than murmuring.

I would have taken the time to listen to my mother's ramble about how she is during her youth.

I would have given my extra money to those in need than to spend it in spa's, parlor's and saloon's to just to make myself look good outside. Instead making myself feel good and look good inside.

I would have sang with my friends than cried out.

I would have never bought anything because of I just like it.

I would have more water intake than softdrinks.

Will not worry about who doesn't like me.

Will not get jealous because they have good stuff/material things.

I would have gone to bed to take a rest than pretending and let the world see that I am strong and can stand for hours/days.

I would have dive and swim the deepest see than just watching it from the seashore.

     Well, If I could live my life over, I would surely make a good shot. But we don't have a Live Menu where we can press any button that we like. There is no rewind button in life. We can't just press it every time we want to change it. What happened in the past is already part of our history. It's over.

     I didn't regret anything about my past. I became a better person because of what happened behind. Maybe the best thing to do is to move on and do much more better than what we did before. In life we only have one shot. So we should take every chances that we have and then have fun with it because we can never get back what we left behind. Give your best shot today buddy and don't let it pass you!

A blessed day everyone!

Moving On. Moving Out. Moving In.

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Sometimes moving on to something that we've been through is hard specially if the impact is too big to handle. Its hard when you deal with your emotions and then at the moment your in the middle of it you don't know what to do until such time you'll just do stupid things and then later on you'll just realized that you've made the biggest mistake in your life.

THE BIG MOVE

"When was the last time I've made the greatest move in my life?".

I was wondering...

Maybe it's when I moved out from Davao for Makati because of a job offer that I cannot just say "NO". It's also the time that I transferred to a new company after 5 years of wonderful experience in my previous company.

Moving On is not that easy. It,s like moving out away from your comfort zone. Its like moving out from the four corners of your wall and you don't know what lies ahead outside of that walls.It's like getting away from your usual or daily routine and try another ways and means to survive. It's like stop eating your favorite food and then you just want to go on a diet. It's like deactivating your facebook or twitter account and just start a life away from internet. 

Moving on means adjustment and facing your greatest challenge. It means accepting new things in life and trying to be a better person in the future. 

But before we can completely moved on.. we should first move out some things.

I BID GOODBYE

To completely moved on, we should moved out some things. We should remove negative thoughts and negative vibes. If you are hurt, eliminate those people who caused you pain. Remove things that will remind you of those painful experience. Take it away from your system and your blood. Its a matter of how willing you are to take it out for you to completely moved on.

WELCOMING

Allow other people to come into your life. Try now experience. Explore. Go out with friends. Love your family more. Love yourself more than anything. It's having the right perspective in life. If your aiming to a big change you should be ready and accept anything that comes along your way whether its good or bad.




Paghihintay at Pagkakataon

"Ang puso natin ay napapagod din. Ngunit hindi ibig sabihin na kapag pagod  ay sadyang susuko sa PAGTIBOK at umasang MAGMAMAHAL muli."

Sa bawat pagdaan ng mga araw. Sa bawat pag ikot ng mundo. Ilang puso na ang nasaksihan kung sawi at bigo. Ilang beses na akong sumubok na umibig, ngunit sadya nga kayang hindi para sa akin ang pag-ibig' Inakala na ang pag-ibig sa nakaraan ang pinaka masayang nangyari sa buhay ko, ngunit ito pala ang pinakamasakit. 

Ilang beses nang nasaktan at iniwan. Ngunit hindi ibig sabihin ay hanggang dun na lang. Hindi nangangahulugan na ang puso ay hihinto at susuko. 

Sa bawat paglalakbay ko sa kalye ng pag-ibig, ilang kaalaman ang aking natutunan. Mga kaalaman na kailan man ay di ko makakalimutan.

Nasaktan kaman sa ngayon,. Bukas ikaw ay babangon at taas-noo mong sasabihin na sa bawat pagkakataon  na ikaw ay nasaktan masasabi mong ikaw at naging matapang.

Wala kang karapatang MAGMAHAL kung hindi ka handang MASAKTAN ang baon sa tuwing ako'y naglalakbay sa paghahanap sa aking kabiyak.

Sa bawat bulong kung panalangan kay God. Sa bawat pagtitiwala na balang araw darating din ang tao na para sa akin. Sa bawat pag-asa na aking nadarama, maangkin din ang pag-ibig na wagas.

Balang araw mararanasan ko din ang SUMAYA muli.
Balang araw mararanasa ko din ang NGUMITI muli.
Balang araw mararanasan ko din ang madama ang YAKAP at PAGMAMAHAL.

Ilang taon akong naghanap. Ilang taon akong naglakbay. May dumating na pagkakataon. Inakala na ito na nga iyon. Ngunit ang pagkakataon ay nawala. Bumitiw. Iniwan. 

Isang pagsubok ng aking pagkatao. Isang mulinga paglalakbay. 

Nakadama ka man ng pagod sa paglalakbay. Sa paghahanap. Pwede namin naisin na TUMIGIL. HUMINTO at magpahinga. 

Hindi natin alam na sa ating pagpapahinga ay makakatagpo tayo ng isang taong naghihintay lang din sa iyong pagdating. 

Maraming dahilan kung bakit ang isang tao ay lumuluha sa tuwing ito ay masaktan dahil sa nabigong pag-ibig.

Ang iba ay luluha na baka di na makakatagpo ng para sa kanila.
Lumuha na baka habang buhay na lamang silang mag-iisa.

Ang pagpapasensya sa paghihintay ang syang makakapagpapasaya sayo. Ibaling ang pag iisip sa ibang bagay. Isipin mo na bago mo pa sya nakilala at nag iisa ka lang at kaya mong mabuhay muli sa maikling panahon na ito. Yan ang PAGHIHINTAY ng tamang PAGKAKATAON.

Kapag dumating ang tamang pagkakataon. Wag sayangin ang bawat oras at araw na ipakita na ikaw ang karapat dapat. 

At ako'y nananalangin na sa bawat paglalakbay mo sa bagong pag-ibig ay baon mo ang pagmamahal at pagtitiwala sa isat-isa. 

The Law Of The Seed

We all know that most seed never grow. For one apple tree to bear 500 apples, you need 10 seeds. 

I was so inspired by the principle of the seed. Some seeds never really grow. Some beautiful seeds die too. In life it also means that we cannot do it in one shot. Say for example, in finding a job, you need to attend 20 interviews to get the position or job you really want. It means not giving up if you did not pass the first interview. It means to try and try until you get the right position for you.

It's also applicable in terms of finding the right person. You need to meet 1000 acquaintances to meet the perfect partner. It doesn't mean that because you are brokenhearted today you will stop loving, you will stop that feeling of being love and then hate love forever. 

It's also the same with what's happening in a call center. As an agent, you need to get 100 calls to get sell the product you are offering to your customers. Unless you are lucky enough to get a good sale in one shot. 
Well, my point is... We will never be happy if we will stop from where we are now. Keep trying and keep your faith. After all, we are just like the seed. We need to strive hard to grow. We need to keep our head high to survive. We need to keep growing and learning from our mistakes. And that will nurture as to become a better person.


photo from: http://www.treehugger.com/files/2008/09/galten-jatropha-biofuel.php

Questions You Should Ask To Find A Lifetime Partner

I've been dreaming that one day I'll settle down with the person I will consider as my lifetime partner. I was praying that someday, the right person will come. I've been searching for that right person but failure keeps hunting me. There are those who come along my way whom I thought are the right one but then in the end its not the one for me. I thought looking for that someone is the answer. I thought that waiting is the best way to find that lifetime partner but then again, I'm wrong. I should start by looking on the other side, by asking questions that give clear answers.

I began searching for answers about, Why love has to end? How to find a perfect partner? How will I know that this is the right person for me... and the question goes on and on...

Well, I was shuttered by the truth that I was asking the wrong questions. Maybe I should start asking this 4 questions for me to find a Lifetime partner. Maybe, you too, would like to ask this to yourselves. This questions might help you evaluate the prospect of long term succcess. We all know that when looking for a lifetime partner of the right person we dont want to make a mistake. We always make sure that the person that we have right now is the right and perfect for us. I've seen a lot of people in different walks of life wounded and broken because of a failed relationship, including me. It seems that many are making a serious mistake in their approach in finding Mr/Ms Right!

If you try to ask a couple together and what made them decide to get married or lived together, they will surely answer: "We're in love!". I think is the #1 biggest mistake people make in terms of finding the right one.

As what Rabbi Dov Heller said: "Choosing a life partner should never be based on love (alone)."

I think what he meant by that is, We can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone, we need a lot more. We need something more than love. When other ingredients are right, then love will come.

Now, lets move on to the question.. (pinapatagal pa eh noh!).
The questions below is also based on Rabbi Dov Heller's book, which I think worth sharing.

QUESTION # 1

Do we share a common life purpose?

Importante ba ito?

Let's just say, I am married for more than 25 years which is very long to live with someone. What are the things that you need to do together? Imagine 25 years of being together? (Yung 5 or 6 years nga nagkakasawaan pa, eh ang 25 years pa kaya?). Anyways, you can go and travel together, go out together, eat out and have fun together. In a relationship there are two things that can happen: You can grow together, or grow apart. To find a lifetime partner, YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE- bottom line- AND MARRY SOMEONE WHO WANTS THE SAME THING.

QUESTION #2

When I express my feelings and thought with this person, do I feel safe?

Feeling safe means you can openly communicate and talk with this person. The basis of it -- TRUST!

Trust that you wont be scared or afraid to get hurt when you express your feelings. Its trust when you can freely share your ideas and thought and not afraid that you will be punished ot tortured because if how you feel. In finding a life partner we should make sure that we are emotionally safe with this person.

QUESTION #3

Is he/she a refined and sensitive person??

To find this out is to ask another question: Is this person always striving to be good? Do they work on their personal growth? Is this person materialistic?

Those who are materialistic are the one whose top priority is not character refinement. These people are those who are dedicated in seeking comfort rather than personal growth. These people are those whose goal in life is to be comfortable in everything rather than doing the right thing.

QUESTION #4

Is there anything that I need to change about this person after we're married?

Most of us commit mistake in trying to "improve" or "change" the person. If we cannot fully accept this person for who they are then don't allow yourself to tie the knot or be together with this person.

Loving doesn't have to be difficult and trecherous. Love should be patience and kind, not jealous and free of pride.

The key: TRY TO LEAD A LITTLE MORE WITH YOUR HEAD AND LESS WITH YOUR HEART.

Lastly, falling in love is a great feeling,but when you wake up in the morning with a ring on your finger, or a you think Mr/Ms Right is beside you, you dont want to see yourself in trouble or get hurt and wounde because you didn't do your homework. It's better to be sure that we choose the right person rather than seeing ourselves broken into pieces that can never be whole again.


The Juice That's Made From Real Juicy Pulp

Courtesy of Nuffnang
I just drank a bottle of Minute Maid Pulpy. They say it’s got ‘no preservatives added’. Aw, c’mon…It’s bottled juice. Is that even possible? So I thought maybe... they're correct. The moment I tasted it, i can even feel the juicy pulp crushed inside my mouth. Really true! Amazing! I cant believe it that there is a juice like Minute Maid. Try it!

I didn’t believe it the first time I heard it’s got no preservatives added. So I read the ingredients (even the fine print) and everything checked out! It really has NO PRESERVATIVES ADDED! That means it doesn’t have ingredients that may turn out to be allergens, or worse...carcinogens! Whew! Now that’s healthy goodness that tastes so good, I... really cant imaging that a juice like this exist. All drink contained in a bottle have preservatives added into it. But when you try and tasted Minute Maid, its just really unbelievable that the taste really is like real orange juice. A real heaven sent.
So okay, it’s got no preservatives added. That’s really good, right? Not just because it doesn’t have those icky, harmful ingredients, but it also means... its free from any ingredients that might cause us internal problems in the future. Plus, since its made from real juice pulp, as we all know that orange is rich in Beta Carotene, which is powerful antioxidant guarding the health of our cells. Lastly, our brain needs folic acid for proper development which is found in Oranges.

So far anyone who still has a hard time believing that Minute Maid has got no preservatives added - meaning it's THAT natural, it's almost like it's plucked straight from the tree, it's just as Mother Nature wanted your orange juice to be, it's got nothing but the good stuff yes, none of those potentially toxic stuff that can harm your brain, kidneys, heart; cause tumors aargh- the list of preservatives' bad effects just go on!!! Anyway, just to prove a point on just how good Minute Maid Pulpy is 'cause it's got NO PRESERVATIVES ADDED, I'm gonna Tell it to the world that Minute Maid is the best product we have in the market. I'm gonna shout it loud and share it with my friends, loved ones and families to try Minute Maid and see it for themselves. I will also include this wonder juice in my daily healthy drinks. Thanks Minute Maid.
Courtesy of Nuffnang

Feels good to know about the real pulpy deal, right? C’mon show me a smile on the comment box, and you might win yourself a Really Pulpy Deal! (That’s a chance to win a Minute Maid gift pack simply by commenting. Sweet! C'mon you just might be picked as the lucky 'commentor'!)
Love,

Xander


Stress-Free Life

Makati City, Philippines -- As I looked back on the journey I had last 2010; it always put a smile on my face. The first quarter of 2010 sailed smoothly not until last October 2010 when I've decided to trransfer to a new company. I am working in a BPO as an HRIS Sr. Specialist by the way. My work usually does reporting. Basically we send out and generate reports for different department in the company whether its for local or overseas. A lot of my friends asked me why the last quarter of the year? Well, God showed me the way for that. It's a decision that didn't go overnight. It's God's will should I say.

Anyways, when I started in the new company, I already expected that a huge stress will come along the way (parang Plants vs. Zombies lang! A huge wave of zombies is approaching). As I've expected it, it arrived. On my first month at work, my team mate (we're only two in the team, aside from our Sr. Manager who is our Superior) need to take her Maternity leave since she is due that month. It means that, I will take over and will handle 12 sites across the Philippines with employees reaching to 25,000 and counting. Imagine the stress and pressure that you carry with that big headcount. I am not complaining about it since I am a player in terms of doing the job I like. But sometime, when stress is too much, you would want to just give up and take a rest instead.

I strongly believed that stress is a contributing factor for a successful job if you know how to handle it properly. With stress it will bring out the best in you but you should know how to identify good stress from bad stress. Good stress will motivate you to work hard. So what will you do when bad stress strikes?

My teacher in college explained about stress management in class, raised a glass of water and asked,

"How heavy is this glass of water?"

Answered called out ranged from 20g to 500g.

My teacher said, the absolute weight doesn't matter, it actually depends on how long you try to hold it.

"If I hold it for a minute, thats not a problem."

"If I will hold it for an hour, I will have ache in my arm."

If I hold it for a day, please call 911."

In each case, the weight is actually just the same. But the longer you hold it, the heavier it becomes.

Just the same with stress; the longer we hold it the heavier the burden until it reach to our boiling point that we can no longer carry it and then we exlode. Just like the glass of water, sometimes we need to hold it down and take a rest for a while. When we have enough energy and when were refreshed we hold it up again, then raise it with pride.

With proper handling of stress, we will surely have a stress-free life and we can properly work when our hearts are not heavy. Ive learned how to balance my life in terms of dealing with stress or burden. Here's some of them:

  1. Accept that some days rain pours, but believe that tomorrow comes the sun.
  2. Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.
  3. Since its the early worm always eaten by the bird, sleep late.
  4. Every time you wake up in the morning or afternoon (in case you woke up late because you sleep late), always say a prayer.
  5. Look in the mirror and check if everything is in order.
  6. A truly happy person is the one who always enjoys life even in the midst or darkness.
  7. Thanks God for every circumstances. It only means greater things is coming.
  8. Always give a smile to anyone in the office.
  9. Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, Because then you won't have a leg to stand on.
  10. We could learn a lot from crayons... Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names, and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box.

Have a stress-free life friend!



Napagkamalan Na Naman

Ilang beses ka na ba napagkamalan?

Habang busy ako sa pag uupdate ng blog ko, heto at biglang may nag pop up na chat message sa facebook ko. Nung tinignan ko, nabigla ako kasi first time itong nag message sa akin. Hindi ko sya kilala actually, pero nasa facebook friends ko sya. Ganun nga siguro talaga nung sumikat ang facebook natuwa ako at inadd ko lahat ng gusto makipag friends sa akin kaya heto yung ibang nasa friends list ko eh di ko kilala.

Anyways nag message sya at nag great ng "Happy New Year!".

"same to you" ang mabilis kung reply.

Napukaw ang attention ko sa mga sumunod na message nya.


Oh diba, nakakapukaw ng attention.

Palagi lang akong napagkakamalan ng ex ng iba. Minsan naman napagkamalan ako ng kalaguyo ng isang may asawa habang naglalakad ako sa mall.

Napaisip tuloy ako kung ang pagmumukha ko ba ay sobrang maraming kapareha? O di naman kaya sadyang ako talaga ang mga ex nila di ko lang alam.

Nakakatuwang isipin na sa pamamagitan ng maliit naming usapan sa bagong kaibigan na ito ay yun pa ang dahilan na baka makabuo kami ng isang maganda relasyon bilang magkaibigan.

Who knows?


Coffee Drinkers At Ang Echusero

Sa Starbucks, Ayala Avenue Makati City, Philippines -- Habang nakatambay sa Starbucks at hinihigop ang paborito kung Coffee Jelly ay kapansin pansin ang bawat tao na pumapasok sa pintuan ng Starbucks. Dahil na rin sa nakaupo ako malapit na pintuan eh naaaninag ko ng mabuti ang pagmumukha ng bawat tao na pumapasok. Habang tumatakbo ang oras at mahaba na din ang oras na ginugol ko sa loob, napansin ko na ibat-ibang klase ng tao ang pumapasok sa "Pambansang Kapehan ng Bayan". Minsan lang ako nagkakape dito dahil medyo may kamahalan para sa akin. Andito lang ako kapag may nanlibre sa akin o di naman kaya ay may extra money ako pang kape. Well, most of us loves coffee. Mapa brewed coffee man yan o kapeng may halong ka-echusan. Kapeng barako or yung brown coffee na sikat na ngayon.

Dahil most of us loves coffee nga, ibat-ibang klaseng tao din ang nagkakape dito sa Starbucks.

UNA, ang pinaka napansin ko ay yung mga taga Call Center. Mga taong tulog sa umaga at gising sa gabi. Since nasa Business Capital ako ng Pilipinas, maraming call centers ang nakapalibot sa Starbucks na ito. So most likely, sila yung nagpapayaman sa coffee shop na ito. Well, they can afford to buy coffee in Starbucks, you know! (with accent... slang!). And the size? Venti of course. Labas masok ang mga agents na ito, pati mga big bosses nila sa Starbucks din ata dumideretso para magkape gayong alam naman natin na may libreng kape sa pantry. Drink all you can pa. Wala nga lang frapuccino sa mga vendo machines na yun.

PANGALAWA, mga Sosyalera/Sosyalero. Sila naman yung mga can afford na mga tao. Mapera. Membro ata ng alta sa siyudad ang mga iho at iha. Sosyal naman talaga sila, the way they dress and the way they speak. Hindi gaya ng ibang taga call center na kahit wala sa loob ng opisina eh english pa rin ng english kahit nagkakandarapa na ang salita nila. No offense ha! Totoo naman eh! Wag kayo magalit mga taga call center eh taga call center din naman ako at hindi ako magaling mag english kaya nga di ako nag-eenglish sa labas eh. Sa loob lang ng opisina pag kailangan. Isang kilo lang din ang english ko. Swear! Anyways, ang mga taong ito ay nakatambay din sa Starbucks dahil minsan dun sila nag bubusiness meeting o may ka meet ka isang sosyalera din.

The Rich and The Famous, ang PANGATLO sa mga napapansin ko na pumupunta sa Starbucks. Oo rich and famous, gaya ng artista, pulitiko, sikat na basketbolista, news anchor, CEO ng Call center. Sa minsanang pagkakape ko sa Starbucks na ito, nakakita na din ako ng isang rich and famous. Itago na lang natin sila sa pangalang Judy Ann Santos and Ryan Agoncillo. Kung sinuswerte ka nga naman diba. Kahit na gustong gusto kung bumunot ng bolpen at papel para mag pa autograph ay pinigil ko ang sarili ko. Baka malahatang taga probinsya ako. Nakakahiya din naman.

PANG-APAT, Social Climber ang sumunod na napansin kong nagkakape sa Starbucks. Sila yung mga taong halatang not so rich and famous pero pinipilit pa rin magkape para feeling "in" sila.

At ang PANGLIMA, ay syempre yung mga taong gaya ko. Yung tipong nagkakape para lang pansinin ang mga taong pumapasok sa Starbucks. Yung mga echusero at echusera. Gaya ng ginagawa ko ngayon. Wala naman talagang dahilan para magkape ako. Pero since wala akong topic na mailagay sa blog ko kaya heto, pati ibang tao pinapansin ko na din. Pakialamero daw ba ako? Hehehehe.

Well, sa totoo lang ang point naman talaga ng post na ito ay upang sabihin sa inyo na kahit anong istado ng buhay nating mga Pilipino, mayaman man o mahirap ay pinipilit pa rin nating gawin ang mga bagay na gusto nating gawin. Mga bagay na nagpapasaya sa atin. After all, what matters most is what we've done to make us happy and not what we did not do because were too afraid to try something new. Minsan naman talaga may dahilan ang bawat tao kung bakit nagkakape sila. At kung ano man ang mga dahilan na yun.. ehh nasa sa kanila na yun. Pakialam ko!


A cup of coffee shared with a friend is happiness tasted and time well spent.  


You Are Special

MAKATI, Philippines -- Habang nagpuputukan na sa labas at busy ang lahat sa pagsalubong sa bagong taon. Ako naman, heto nakaharap sa laptop, nag iisip at nagmumuni kung anong makabuluhang bagay ang gagawin ko sa pagdating ng bagong taon na ito.  Habang nakikinig ng musika ang kanan kung taenga at ang kaliwa naman ay nakatuon sa balita sa telebisyon, ang utak ko naman ay nag-iisip ng mga bagay-bagay. Madami akong naiisip. Namimiss ko pamilya ko. Wala ako sa kaarawan ng kapatid ko sa araw na ito, technically kahapon ang birthday nya kasi January 1, 2011 na tayo ngayon. Maraming akong gustong gawin na di ko naman magagawa.

Anyways, since napagod na ako sa kakaisip at naiingayan na din ako sa paputok at nalilito na ang taenga ko sa kakapakinig ng balita at musika, naisipan kung dumungaw sa bintana at panoorin na lang mga mga taong nagpaputok at naglalaro sa labas ng bahay namin. Habang nakatingin sa labas ng bintana, napatingala ako sa langit at napasabing,

"Salamat, Panginoon dahil sa ako'y mahal mo."

Bumalik ako sa loob ng bahay; humiga sa sahig na malamig habang inaalala ang mga nangyari sa buhay ko noong nakaraang taon (nag eemo lang talaga ako ngayon). Napatanong ako sa sarili ko kung anong meron ako at mahal pa din ako ng Diyos. Sa lahat ba ng bagay na ginawa ko. Sa lahat ng kasalanan na nagawa ko sa sarili ko at sa kapwa ko ay mahal pa din nya ako. Sa lahat ng pagkakataon na nadismaya ko sya ay andun pa din ang biyayang hindi mapigilan.

Naalala ko nung minsang umattend ako ng seminar patungkol sa pagpapahalaga sa sarili. Nagsimula ang speaker sa pamamagitan ng pabunot ng isang libong piso sa kanyang bulsa. Itinaas ang pera at nag tanong sa mga nakakarami,

"Sino ang may gusto ng perang ito?".

Isa ako sa mga nagtaas, habang nakatingin sa look ng function hall. Nakita ko na ang lahat ay nakataas ang kamay, yung iba dalawang kamay ang itinaas.

Ginusot ng speaker ang pera sabay tanong... 

"Sino ang may gusto ng perang ito?".

Lahat ay nakataas pa din ang kamay ng walang pag aalinlangan.

Habang gusot na gusot na ang pera, tinapon ng speaker ang isang libong piso sa sahig sabay apak at kiskis sa sahig hanggang sa nagmukhang mula at gasgas na ang perang ito.

Muling nag tanong sa madlang people ang speaker.

"Sino ang may gusto sa perang ito?".

Napaisip ako na kunti na lang ang tataas ng kamay. Ngunit halos lahat ay nakataas pa rin ang kamay.

Naisip ko na ganun na ba kahirap ang tao ngayon? Kahit ba ang perang gusot at halos punit na ay pagkakainteresan pa rin natin.

Ngunit iba ang leksyon na nakuha ko sa pangyayaring iyon. I've learned a very valuable lesson. Kahit anong gawin ng speaker sa perang ay gusto parin natin ito dahil sa hindi naman bumaba ang value ng perang yung. Isang liubong piso pa din sya kahit gusot at punit na. Pwede namang ayusin at magamit muli.

Maraming beses sa buhay natin, bumagsak tayo, nadumihan, hinila pababa at inapakan sa putikan siguro dahil sa mga desisyon na ginawa natin o sa mga pangyayaring di natin maiwasan o dumaan sa ating buhay. Minsan naisip at naramdaman natin na worthless tayo dahil sa failure tayo. Pero kahit ano pala mangyari o nangyari sa buhay natin. Failure man tayo, sugatan at nasaktan, inapakan man o itinapon, hindi pala nawala ang value natin sa mata ng Diyos. Para sa kanya, madumi man o malinis, lukot man o maayos still wala pa rin ang katumbas natin sa mga mata nya.

Ang halaga ng buhay ng bawat isa sa atin ay hindi sa kung ano ang ginawa natin o kung ano ang alam natin kundi sa akong ano at sino tayo.


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