Can You Reach My Friend?

     I was searching some documents this morning when I ran into this old script from one of our musical play at church. The musical is about friendship. In fact the title of that christian musical is Friends Forever. I scanned each pages while I reminisced the time that me and my best friend where still together "as friends". The time that we can share anything without any doubt, fear or what others would say. I quoted "as friends" because there was a time when I almost lost her. There was a time when we let go of the years and the things we've been together. Its the time when we stop calling as friends. Its the time when I thought I will lose her for the rest of my life. I cannot really tell in complete details about what happened, maybe in the future, but its something that I regret it happened to us. Its something that I didn't consider before doing such stupid things.

     Anyways, this entry is not about regrets and about failed friendship promises, but this is dedicated to her as I miss her a lot. I miss every moment when we were still. This is to tell her how I value our friendship and maybe telling her that whatever happened in the past, its already buried and forgotten as its not written in stones. This is to let her know that I am so proud of our friendship. I am so proud of what we have become after we parted ways. I just want to let you know that I still have that friendship deep in my heart and that I never really let it go. I wish we have more time to reach each other but I know that if I need you, you will always be there for me.

     Going back to the moment when I was scanning the script, I came across this song about reaching a friend who went away or ran away. The lyrics of the song tells about two friends who haven't had any chance to talked about their separate lives. They were separated by unavoidable circumstances. The other friend is asking God to reach her friend and keep her safe. The title of the song is: Can You Reach My Friend. Below is the song I was talking about.





     What happened between me and my best friend gives me some lessons. ONE, You need to value your true and trusted friends. TWO, Never say never to a friend. As the famous line said, A friend in need is a friend in deed. THREE, Do anything for a friend. Anything that will build your friendship and trust to each other. Never tolerate a friend to do something that's not good. When he/she commits mistake, be there for her/him. And lastly, FOUR, never compromise your friendship.


     To my best friend which I will call You-Know-Who (as I'm not sure if she will allow me to mention her name in my blog), if you read this, hope you'll know that I am always here for you maybe not physically but spiritually. Your "Best" is always here. I am a friend till the end.



Comments

  1. ..thanks for dropping at my blog~

    haha..i can totally relate at your post though i stop calling and assuming others as my best friend since i had a previous bad experience about trusting a so-called best friend when i was still an elem. student..well..that was long ago..i honestly is still in the process of getting over it and learning to trust a friend again..

    haha~ but this post makes me envy you..im just starting to make good and realiable friends..at the same time be like that too..

    well..if you dont mind, inform me if youre interested following my blog and in return ill follow yours too..

    with regards,
    ayu-chan :3

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  2. Hey ayu! thanks for dropping by.. first of all sure lets follow each other.. hehe..

    you shouldn't envy me.. you can make new friends and trust someone again.. we all run into something hard but be strong and im sure you need a friend.. someone out there is waiting for a good friendship with you..

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  3. RE:thanks for the reply..ill take hold of that..ill be following you now ^^

    btw..just a request..if ever you'll reply again at my future comments on your posts..make sure to post it in my blog so ill know that you replied.thanks again :)

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  4. sure ayu.. thanks for following me.. ill grant your request.. thanks for taking time to read my post..

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  5. moring xander,
    wow. that s awesome."Do anything for a friend. Anything that will build your friendship and trust to each other"

    and never compromised your frienship.

    can we be friends- nagaaply po.

    awesome post.Made my day.

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  6. my first time here. the message of the video is very touching. and i agree with the lessons you learned from your best friend. God bless you both. ingats xander!

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  7. @ Diamond R -- hahha.. sure naman

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  8. friends are the coolest people in the planet

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  9. Hye Fr Felmar.. Thanks for visiting my blog..

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  10. Great post par... ako din, can I be your blogger friend? hehehe.

    Maraming kaibigan ang hindi nagtatagal, peers o panandalian lang. Pero iilan lang ang masasabi mong tunay na kaibigan na tatagal ang samahan nyo hanggang pagtanda... yan ang wala pa sa dami ng daliri

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  11. Ganda naman blogs mo bro..i like it & i can relate the friendship we have too. Hahayz.. nakaka miz yung past yung tipong laughter and sadness, BUt like what the messeges said..I may not beside you physically but spiritually and my prayers is always there for you. -thankz-

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  12. @Mokong-- OO naman from now on friends na tayo dito.. walang halong kaplastikan. Tama ka dyan, mahirap maghanap ng tao matatawag mo na tunay na kaibigan.

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  13. @ynot-D yeah same here.. welcome bro!

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  14. huhuhu... na karelate ako dito ng sobra-sobra..... kakamiss yung mga moments na ganun noh... :D
    ika nga nila... mabibilang mo lang sa kamay ang tunay at totong mong kaibigan sa mundo :D

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  15. @AXL-- tama ka dyan mahirap humanap ng totoong kaibigan...

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  17. Hey Best! Same here.. so bless to have you in my life.. Take care always and remember im always here for you.. kahit malapit ka na umalis ng pinas.. hope to see you soon.. Love you too Best!

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  19. Yeah! I know Best. You weren't singing with us.. I agree na its the most difficult part sa akong life.. hahaha.. life nga naman.. Ayaw ko nga i remember ang time na yun ehh kasi masakit.. pero ngayon parang natatawa na lang ako but it made me stronger.

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